Parenting. No handbook, no instructions and each time you think it have it figured out, life throws you a curveball to keep you grounded. I’m no expert on parenting and struggle just like everyone else in hoping I’m doing something right.
Here are some things I’ve learned by being a parent for the last 10 years:
- They watch your every move and listen to everything you say.
While in Wal-Mart the other day, I commented on how the company is upping their clothing game. Ever since then, she’s been using that phrase. Their internal tape recorders are always on so speak with caution.
- Appreciation for my parents
Growing up and especially through my teenage years, I thought I knew better than them. I was wrong and they were right. I admit it. So, Mom, if you’re reading this, thank you.
- Exhaustion is a vicious cycle
Kids keep you up at night. You’re always thinking of their well being. Always. Which in turn leaves you exhausted physically and mentally.
- Expect the unexpected
Like I said before, kids don’t come with handbooks. With my second kid, I thought I had all the answers. NOPE! She’s completely different from my oldest.
- Show them accountability
If you know me, you know that I don’t apologize for my kids. I make them apologize for themselves. They hate it. But you know what? They’re better people for it and they will know own up for their actions. If you apologize for the actions of you kid, STOP.
- Communication is key
These days it’s more important than ever to talk to your kids. We hear it a lot, but it’s really true. They have to know that you’re there for them and you’re listening. Honestly, if more parents just listened and talked with their kids I think many things going in the world might go away.
- Show them kindness
If they watch you showing acts of kindness towards them and others, they’ll follow suit.
- It’s okay to be weird
Show them to be authentic.
- Patience
Think of all those things you have to teach your child different skills: dressing, tying shoes, brushing teeth, school work, etc. It tested all every ounce of patience I had. If you tell me you were fine, you’re not being honest with yourself.
- It’s harder than it looks
See all your friends posting pictures of their perfect families that seem to lead perfect lives? They’re lying. Plain and simple. Every parent knows raising a kid is difficult!
Overall, being a parent has taught me unconditional love and putting others before myself. I mean, this is another human! Show them grace. Show them mercy. Above all show them how to lead a life worth living.
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